Dating when you've unpacked your baggage

What I've learnt about people is that you need to let them be. Don't stifle them. Don't try to turn them into who you want. In my case, don't try to make him fit a mould, based on a list (even though he kinda does already...yay manifestation!). That's a recipe for failure, and that should be your own red flag

2021 Review, 2022 Vision

This overall ten day exercise brought up a lot of emotions, but it was really therapeutic, and allowed me to take a proper inventory of the last year, and take the good and the good from the bad of 2021, and consciously know what I need to work on in 2022. I'm truly looking forward to a great year filled with love, health, and prosperity.

Valentine's Day Musings at 31

Instead I'm reminding myself that life throws you curveballs at every turn, and you need to learn to duck, but also catch those curveballs and throw them back. It just doesn't make sense to hold onto them, dwell on them, and let them erode your sanity.

A Salute to My Twenties!

To my twenties, although I did not want you to end, at the point in time, I did not always appreciate you. I did not believe in the process, or the necessary lessons, and just thought life was often being unfair and unnecessarily hard on me...

Renting Time

I’m paying for my sanity, my time, and my independence. Any one of those reasons would make it worthwhile, but all together, it’s a steal of a deal to me

I am 29.

I am 29. I am 29? Wait..what?! Well…according to the birth certificate, I am now 29, so let’s go with that.

I’d be lying if I said I don’t cringe everytime I say that. There are and will always be moments of mini (who am I kidding, there’s nothing mini when it comes to emotions with me!), okay major panic attacks where I wonder…